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April 30, 2019January 27, 2020

I Work Change

Change does not have to work you out, you do know that you can also work it too? But if you choose not to work change, then you are going to feel overwhelmed and unprepared for the change that is going to happen for you and to you. We can work change by seeking it out, monitoring it and reinvent ourselves in those new spaces that we were clearly meant to be in.

Everything happens for a reason and a season. There’s no such thing as a mistake or coincidence. You can either learn from it or experience something new. That is the whole purpose of change; to teach you and to reveal to you what’s new for you which means it’s probably what you need. Please don’t tell me that in 2019 you are still #team ‘life’s not fair’ because sweetheart life is fair. Fairness says that everyone and everything will get what we need. It’s high time we see change as a necessity and get out of our feelings for just a single minute and let go of how we think things should be.

I’m trying not to roll my eyes but I can’t help it.

I’ll try and not roll my eyes back in judgment because I understand that the same way that a flower needs time to change into its bloomful self, you are also going to need time to grasp the truth about fairness. In the meantime sit quietly and affirm your power back, declare that this is your day, every day and question your way into your new.

Affirmations

I am changing, everyday in every moment.

Change is here for me.

I expand when I allow change to happen.

I welcome change, I welcome my best life.

Declarations

Change is imminent and so am I.

I receive more of what I need when change happens.

I’m ok with not knowing.

I am prepared in the unknown.

Questions

Where is my change?

How can I work my change?

I wonder what amazing change will happen today?

Who am I during my change?

March 31, 2019January 27, 2020

Check your emotions…

So that they don’t wreck you! The best way to know whether you are on the right track is to make some time and look back. It’s hard to take inventory of everything in the present moment. But you can track your patterns, progress, and rooms for improvement after the fact and then plan better moving forward.

Ask yourself the following questions and find out if you are responding and reacting or maybe you struggle expressing yourself. Look at what emotions you lean on in which situations. Are you able to be happy in happy environments and what does your inner voice say during different situations?

What’s working with my emotions?

Which emotions are using you and are you able to transmute your emotions so that you work out in the end? Remember life will not stop happening which means that you need to happen just as much. Imagine you are inside a boxing ring, the whole purpose is to be in that ring and box away. Let’s say your boxing opponent is giving you all of the jabs, what are you going to do? Stop boxing? I don’t think so! Remember why you are here. You are here to live which means you better live and make the most of it.

How can I forgive more?

And why do you struggle with forgiveness and compassion? Are you holding on to the pain, an invoked memory, pride, ego maybe? Because it has already happened why are you still there meanwhile the situation has moved on and is hanging up new curtains already. I promise you with forgiveness and compassion you will hold on to the most precious thing you could ever hold on to and that’s you! Remember why you are here. You are here to be you.

How can I be more compassionate?

Remember when you didn’t know how to open or use a doorknob and all of the adults around you would express their irritation towards your lack of fine motor skills? That one question alone pretty much sums up my point, the adults were mad at you for not having fine motor skills and you really just didn’t know any better. So you continued to bang the door because you didn’t know how to turn the door knob. Now use that same analogy but this time you are the adult and instead of being mad take that same energy and bring plants back to life with it, as in love.

February 28, 2019January 27, 2020

Be demanding

It’s not every day that you get a call to disrupt, divert or be difficult but I urge you to pick up the phone and have the conversation. When seeds first shoot and roots come out of a seed they come out as a result of disrupting, diverting and being difficult. How are roots and a shoot being difficult? Well with each growth step they are choosing to go beyond the seed level.

When Honorable Judge Judy says work, WORK dear!

Affirm, declare and ask all of the questions as you disrupt, divert and are being difficult.

Affirmation
I am difficult in the face of my oppression. My life is too precious to be stagnant. In the face of redundancy and conformity, I disrupt. Because I understand that what I release multiplies and comes back to look for me in abundance. I receive growth

Declaration
I declare that I am difficult at the face of my own oppression. I decree that I will not be an accomplice to my own oppression. Please miss me with EVERYTHING that does not, could not and will not serve me. Please and Thank you.

Questions
What am I afraid of?
Who and what am I trying to please by going with the flow?
How can I honor my journey?

January 4, 2019April 10, 2019

Growth

AFFIRM

This is the only best life that you will get. Try yes this time and see where these affirmations take you!

I grow from everything that I experience. From the moves that I make to the risks that I take. Giving myself the opportunity to move past my current state of understanding and allow situations to come as they are. I greet everything at the door, welcome it, then I release it all out with gratitude and receive my best life.

DECLARE

It’s time to do and say yes to our best lives, let’s declare and say YESSSSSSSSS!

I grow through it all.

Growth is good for me.

I move, I grow and glow. Repeat!

QUESTIONS

Yes we are making, doing and saying yes to everything that is our best lives. And we are asking questions so that there is no confusion, doubt or uncertainty because we understand that we are active role players in our own best life. Have you asked questions that will have a domino effect of leading you to the answers that will empower you?

How can I grow from this?

What will I become after this?

How can I use this to serve?

Prompted Affirmations, Declarations and Questions all for your Growth.

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